Men are clues less in terms of the qualities women are looking for in a man. Men try to present themselves completely different than what we look for.  Obviously good good looks and good job go without saying but there is more to what we look for in a man.

So men stop trying to impress us with all of your superficials and listen up. These are the qualities we look for in a man:

1- Honesty. This is the most important characteristics we look for.  We don’t want to spend our days and nights wondering if you’re cheating on us. We also want someone who will be a stright talker and say what is on his mind. We don’t want to play mind games. Be honest and upfront.

2- Intelligence. We like our men to be intelligent. If you can not hold a decent conversation, than you’re a waste of time. You have to be able to talk about different things other than football!  There’s something very sexy about a man who has brains!

3- Goal oriented. We love a man who has goals and v ision for his career path and family life.  It’s okay if you’re in starting up early in your career  as long as you have a goal and working towards it.

4- Sense Of Humor. Women love men who are funny!   Humor is infectious. The sound of loud laughter is far more contagious than any cold. Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress and pain. There is nothing more romantic than finding someone to love and laugh with through life. 

5- Shared Values. I do not agree with the old saying “opposites attract”. That can’t be further from the truth. The most important thing in a relationship is sharing the same personal values and priorities in life. We like our men to have the same thoughts as us on politics, religion and having babies. Without sharing the same core values, it will be hard to build a healthy relationship.


à la prochaine fois

Nicole 🙂 

15 Responses to What do women look for in a man – Tuesday 4th May

  1. Disco Queen
    May 07, 2010

    Nicole I think you are a bit too hard on men here lol
    But I agree that men need to pay more attention to what women want!!

  2. Sam
    May 09, 2010

    And what is it again that women want my Disco Queen?

  3. Cleopatra
    May 10, 2010

    Read the article sam ..

  4. Camel Rider
    May 13, 2010

    Perhaps we should have a list of what men want in the name of fairness.

  5. Disco Queen
    May 13, 2010

    What do men look for in a woman?
    The answer is simple: A pulse!

  6. Sam
    May 13, 2010

    haha diso you are a riot!! 🙂

  7. Taher
    May 13, 2010

    I think what men and women look for depends on culture and economical status. Obviously someone from working class will probably have money on top of list. Highly educated will education somewhere up. Religion is also another important factor for many men and women.

  8. سمير
    May 14, 2010

    !افتقد ايام الماضي حيث النساء تطبخ وتنظف وترعى الاطفال. فين ايام زمان

  9. khalid
    May 14, 2010

    sameer please tell me you did not just say what you just said! I sense trouble coming your way lol

  10. Princess Nada
    May 14, 2010

    I think you are confusing having a maid with having a wife. I really doubt you are going to win any hearts on here with these sweet words!

  11. Disco Queen
    May 14, 2010

    Obviously Mr sameer is still living in the 12th century. He just needs to find the keys to his time machine to get back home. 🙂

  12. Imam
    May 14, 2010

    lol!! Diso this is one of the funniest responses I have ever read!

    where from?

  13. khalid
    May 14, 2010


  14. Camel Rider
    May 15, 2010

    Sameer did noy say anything wrong. A lot of mguys and girls are old fahsioned and still believe in the traditional view of the man working and the woman is a stay at home mum. So what is so 12 th century about that?
    It seems men have lost their right to speak up their mind without being called sexiest.
    I think the feminist movement we are having now in our home has done more harm than good.
    If women are going to respond, please respond as a grown up without getting personal.

  15. Disco Queen
    May 17, 2010

    @camel rider: It is obviously you that have an issue with women daring to speak up about their rights. Why stop at 12th century? you might as well go back to the stone age when man pulled women by the hair!

    I am sure you would love that!!
    I have also noticed how you guys and girls instead of guys and women.

    To answer your question what is wrong with the “the old fashioned” values? Nothing at all. Some women I do agree want to stay at home and many more want more out of life. Each has the right to persue whatever they see fit. However from your style, it seems you have an issue with any woman trying to make a career for herself or climb the corporate ladder. This part I have a problem with and I find sexiest.

    It is pointless trying to debate with men like you specially if their s/n is camel rider! I just want to say I truely have sympathy to whomever poor woman is going to end up with you!

    Disco Queen

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