We think you’d agree that what you say and how you say it when you’re talking to your spouse or partner can make a HUGE difference in how they respond to you..

Say it one way and they want to fight, argue or pull away…

Say it another way and it’s like you’re teenagers in love who can’t get enough of each other again…

Learn Our magic words That Pull Them Close

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Some people (hopefully not you) might think that using “love scripts” might be boring or won’t work to get your partner to open their heart to you and give you more of the love you want…

But that’s not true at all.

Using love scripts filed with magic words when you talk to your spouse or partner is sort of like watching a romantic comedy movie…

The movie is scripted but that doesn’t mean that it’s not funny just because it’s scripted–it actually means that the
script is FUNNY.

It’s the same way in your relationship…

If your partner hasn’t listened to you in the past and you’ve had trouble being understood…

It’s always a whole lot better to “script” what you’re going to say and how you’re going to say it using magic words
than just trying to “wing it” and hope they open their heart and want to come closer to you.

It’s in asking yourself this…

“Is what I’m about to say (and how I’m going to say it) going to pull them closer to me and make them want to open their heart to me in this moment?”

If the answer is a true YES… then use it (say it).

If the answer is a no when you ask yourself that question–then you don’t want to say it that way.

Here’s an example of a “love words” you might use in combination with our “magic words” that works every
single time…

Instead of saying something like…

“Why would you want to do that?” or “That won’t work” when you don’t like what your partner is about to do or you don’t think what they’re about to do is the best way to do something…

You might try the statement (in the form of a question)…

“Would you tell me more about that?”

or simply…

“Tell me more about that…”

This way by using a phrase and question like this, you’ll be inviting much more openness and connection from
your spouse or partner just by using your words in a certain way .

Magic Relationship words Really Do Work…..

When you use them to “script out” what to say or how to say it, it’s like you’re planning for success in your conversations to help you create more love and connection between the two of you and THAT is a good thing.

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