As a woman who dated online for years and now has her own business in the field, A Little Nudge, I know what other women want. I’ll break it into three categories: photos, profiles and emails. Photos No. 1: The number of photos lets you put a whopping 26 pictures in your profile. The key […]

If you find yourself looking for love online, you might just fall for someone outside of your zip code. So does distance really make the heart grow fonder? Online dating site  analyzed over 500,000 responses to the questions, “Would you have a long distance relationship?” and “Would you relocate for a partner?” to find out. According […]

Valentine’s Day is this weekend, which means some of you are seeing dollar signs! Don’t worry, romance doesn’t have to cost a fortune and it doesn’t require weeks of planning. We’ve compiled 5 simple, inexpensive date ideas for any couple to make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. 1. Get away. This might seem like […]

If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of the “it’s not you, it’s me” speech, or, possibly even worse (if you were really romantically interested in that person), the “you’re like a brother/sister/friend to me,” you know how devastating it can be. But would you want to continue dating someone who just isn’t all […]

When you’re building an online dating profile, the photos you select have a big impact on your perceived desirability. We all know that posting a selfie you took in the bathroom is pretty creepy, but going too far in the other direction may also scare off potential dates. If you go overboard with a professionally […]

Growing up, we weren’t taught who men really are and what makes them tick. I know I wasn’t and in the past, I made huge mistakes that ended up emasculating men.  It’s what led me to helping women really understand who men are…especially over 50’s men. That’s why I wrote these 8 tips about men you can […]

It may not always feel that way, but if you’re over forty and dating you, congratulations are in order! You are at an advantage over your younger friends and there are definite pluses to dating in midlife. Hopefully, you are wiser and more sure of yourself and what you want in a relationship. You have […]

For anyone who’s recently come out of a long relationship /marriage, on-line dating might be a bit intimidating. There’s no stigma these days and apparently there are over 9 million people doing it so come on, it is worth a shot. Your confidence has probably taken a knock, but now’s the time to get back […]

We think you’d agree that what you say and how you say it when you’re talking to your spouse or partner can make a HUGE difference in how they respond to you.. Say it one way and they want to fight, argue or pull away… Say it another way and it’s like you’re teenagers in […]

Ignore all of those cynical lawyer jokes. There are plenty of amazing things about attorneys…here are just 15 of them! Quoting your date will make you sound smarter: “My boyfriend is a lawyer and he says…” Your mom and dad will be impressed. Plus: A lawyer in the family is always a good thing! Most lawyers are fantastic dressers. […]

Sometimes the best advice is really simple.Easy does it. Take a deep breath. Don’t worry, be happy. I think you get my point. Clever comedian and writer Carolyn Castiglia has come up with ten mistakes men are making during the online dating process — I would say these mishaps are extremely common. And, many women are guilty of […]

Let’s face it, meeting men is hard, especially if you are over 40. You’re not meeting men at work or in bars anymore. Your circle of friends is either the same it’s been for years, or post-divorce you are now creating new friendships. If you’ve been avoiding going online because you’re thinking that it’s only […]

It’s the new year and that means there’s no better time than right now to jump online and create (or update) your dating profile so that it stands out. Just like getting ready to go out with your single friends on a Friday night, you need to prepare and put some thought into how you […]

Your profile is your face on dating sites. Thus, you have to put as much attention as possible while creating your profile – this will increase your chances to find your perfect match. Lets start with your screen name, or login name as some sites tend to call it. Avoid using the words like ‘xxx’, […]

There is Mr. Right, and then there’s Mr. Right NOW. Mr Right Now is the one who you see and are immediately attracted to. He’s a smooth talker, well dressed, well traveled, has a good job, and could romance you into bed that same night. Mr Right is the one who you may be attracted […]

Anyone who is online dating is well aware of the daunting task of weeding through online dating profiles. We’ve all been there, done that and many have written blogs about it! It’s not so much fun, to say the least. Some people even hire other people to do it for them. Well since most of […]

some may be looking for a casual dinner partner on Friday nights, others may be looking for a new father-figure for their children. I make no claims to be in the mindset of everybody, but from my lips to your ears, here is my (fairly typical) thought process as I log-in to my online dating […]

First dates can feel like job interviews sometimes — what with picking out the right outfit to wear, making sure you say the right things, and trying to keep your vibes good and your spirits up and as with job interviews, it’s important to go into a first date with confidence. Sometimes the best way […]

As you may already know, girls on online dating sites receive far more messages than their male counterparts. So sometimes you’re just not going to get a reply, and that’s the deal. Maybe you’re not her type, maybe she’s met someone, maybe she took some really bad acid and is now only attracted to horses. […]

Maybe you fall into this category of people deciding to try online dating, either for the first time or once again. I would encourage you to do so if you’re thinking about it, but I also want to offer some advice on how you should set your goal for trying online dating. First, recognize that […]

I know it might sound outdated to say that romance still matters in dating – but it continues to be a really effective way of making a great impression in the early stages of your relationship. As things progress, it’s a wonderful way to keep things fun and fresh. It also shows your partner that […]

Research has long shown that married people are generally healthier and live longer than unmarried people. Married people are less likely to get cancer and heart attacks, and have even been shown to be at lower risk for dementia. One study found married people to be much less likely to suffer from headaches, back pain, […]

A fight, a disappointment, a Miscommunication. Ask yourself: What could I have done differently? What could we have done differently? What can we learn from this? Then talk to your partner about it, starting with what you could have done differently. All relationships need a little pick-me-up sometimes— These actions will make your partner feel […]