It is hard to when someone breaks up or gets out of a relationship. The last thing you would be thinking about is falling in love all over again. It is so normal to go through that feeling and it is painful to see someone go through it. With that said, it should be just a matter of time before […]

Want some real dating advice for women?Your friends are great. They know you, they know your dating history, they know the kind of men you go for, who better is there to get advice for relationships? But let me ask you this: Has the approach you’ve taken got you the results you want? The mistake […]

Sexiest US Towns for Dating after 40 The dating scene gets a bad rap, but the way we see it, your 30s, 40s, and  50s can be a great time to find love (or lust)—especially if you know where to  look. To help stack the odds in your favor, we combed data from the country’s  […]

You deal with the fallout of not getting enough sleep  by feeling a little groggy every morning. But what you may not realize is the  domino effect at work here, and it’s much more dangerous than just feeling  tired. Increasingly, researchers tell us, it’s clear that “short sleeping” can  get us into plenty of trouble […]

“Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is specifically your own.” – Bruce Lee   Being highly productive is not an innate talent; it’s simply a matter of organizing your life so that you can efficiently get the right things done.  

New year, new dating life. And good guys do exist. Here’s the dating advice you need to let go of your relationship hang-ups and start meeting men. Ex-tract! Remove ex-everythings from your space. Move forward by not actually being able to go backward: Hide your ex on chat, delete his phone number, defriend him on […]

Some people say that a “Marry me” ultimatum is the least romantic thing on the planet. They’re wrong. It’s actually No. 4 on the list, behind only root canals, zits and “Battlestar Galactica” jokes. Ultimatums are scary. Ultimatums can backfire. There are some scenarios, of course, where the guy really is dragging his feet and […]

You agreed to stick it out through sickness and health and for richer or poorer, but marital vows don’t address the other big things that can untie your knot—boredom, feeling out of touch—or worse, platonic friendship instead of an in-love partnership. While honeymoon headiness will inevitably decline, that doesn’t mean your relationship has to nosedive […]

Muscle Up Your Immunity Staying healthy isn’t just about using hand sanitizer and avoiding coughing co-workers.   It turns out some pretty surprising daily habits—like how you fight with your husband or whether you stay up late for Letterman—can impact how well your body fends off colds, flu and other pesky bugs. Here’s a list […]

Practically everyone is on Facebook these days, and it’s a handy way for guys to check girls out. In a perfect world, what does a gent like to see on a lady’s Facebook page? One Glamour writer spells it out. Not long ago, Mark Zuckerberg — the world’s youngest potential billionaire, and the world’s least […]

The difference in men’s and women’s attitudes toward sex are often taken for granted. Men want sex, women want commitment; men look for attractive mates and women go after social status.  But not all psychologists are on board with these gender-essentialist statements. In a new review, University of Michigan psychologist Terri Conley and colleagues sift […]

Dating should be a fun experience. To make sure you’re enjoying yourself, while staying safe, be aware of common signs in people with abusive personalities. If you’re using an online dating service, look for these types of traits in possible matches: Extreme jealousy or possessiveness Pushes for quick and intense involvement Seems too good to […]

Flirting isn’t obvious. If you’re up-front about your desire to date someone, you’re not flirting. In a flirtatious interaction, the excitement comes from the hint at a possibility. For many people, the thrill of flirting is simply receiving attention. To get that attention, you have to give it. Use nonverbal signals — eye contact, standing […]

Internet dating allows you to post your own unique dating profile. You remain in control at all times. With that in mind, first date advice starts at this beginning point. You can increase the chance of success by remembering one simple tip: Always be honest. Do not lie. Be genuine. Be yourself. Online dating success […]

Solve Conflicts by taking the LEAD Conflict is not in and of itself a bad thing. In fact, conflicts in relationships can be constructive when used as a vehicle for improving communication. The following four steps can help you use conflict as a tool for gaining clarity, creating deeper understanding and strengthening relationships. When you […]

People have varying degrees of comfort with conflict. Some prefer avoiding it at all costs. Unfortunately, those costs tend to increase the longer issues are left unaddressed. Therefore, learning how to manage and resolve conflict is to your benefit. When dealing with conflict:  Treat it as normal and expected. Conflict need not be catastrophic or […]

Ever since Chad Thompson kicked a pile of wet leaves on me during third grade recess, I’ve been drawn to the challenge of a wayward guy with zero interest in me. (I would have married Chad right there on the playground if he’d asked.)  It took a doozy of a relationship—with a man who was […]

“I feel like I am always wooing my girl but it doesn’t happen the other way around. I bring her flowers often. I wish occasionally she’d surprise me with a six-pack or my favorite dessert.” — Dustin, 25  

Practically everyone is on Facebook these days, and it’s a handy way for guys to check girls out. In a perfect world, what does a gent like to see on a lady’s Facebook page? Not long ago, Mark Zuckerberg — the world’s youngest potential billionaire, and the world’s least awkward performer (if SNL was any […]

We don’t doubt that newlyweds Will and Kate are as solid as the 18-carat rock he slid on her finger eight months ago. But any couple’s bond would be tested by the reported 10-week separation the two will face in a few months when Wills heads off for training, leaving Kate behind in their sleepy […]

A recent book describes why a little twinge of envy isn’t always a bad thing. But if you’re turning into a full-on green-eyed monster, it’s time to figure out why and solve the issue. Are you a jealous person? If so, do you at times feel like you’re crazy or irrational for being so possessive? […]

It’s not easy for a man to tell his wife or girlfriend what she does to irritate him. But sometimes it’s important for couples to healthily air their grievances. . Think of it more as the things that will bring us closer … by you not doing them. Second-Guess Yourself – You know that colleague […]

We often hear complaints from professional single women that their online dating efforts have just not been successful. Let’s take a look at that … Meeting great guys is a challenge for most single women, and when you’re putting in long hours to get ahead in your profession or running a business, the challenge grows […]

CHICAGO — Paul Gutierrez can attest to some pretty bad dating horror stories. One time, a mail-order bride climbed out a window in the middle of their date. Another time, Gutierrez, 38, says he dressed up like a moose to catch a woman’s attention, to no avail.

He may be a bit of a geek, but the guy you’ve always thought of as “just a friend” could be the best boyfriend you’ve ever had. Here’s why. Ever since Michael Cera became hot leading guy material, we’ve been thinking about the dorky guys we often overlook. In our experience, nothing about our nerdy […]